Hi everyone

I'm leaving to go back to Colorado today to see my kids. A judge gave
me two weeks with them after three years.

Three years ago I was arrested for domestic violence.

My Guatemalan wife was "counseled" that since she was not a citizen,
the best chance she had of keeping full custody of the kids was
having me charged with DV.

It worked really well. Two nights before I was going to move out of
the house she started and argument and started screaming for my son
to call 911. She grabbed the key to my study where I had my computer,
(which she said she was going to destroy). We had a brief struggle
for the key. That was the extent of the DV. She was completely unhurt.
A jury of women agreed with me and I was found NOT GUILTY.

However, the no contact was still in effect! I was later arrested for
going back to my old house to get some of my things.

Those charges were later dropped but all told I've spent lots of
money on bail, lawyers and time in jail.

The absolute worst was that when we finally went to the judge for a
divorce, she told the judge that the reason for the divorce was
because of our religious differences. She had gotten heavily envolved
in a Pentecostal cult. I was going to Unity Church in Boulder. I
asked the judge for 2 weekends a month since I was then living in a
small apartment because she had, of course, been able to keep the
house.

I was shocked that the judge agreed with her and did not give me any
Sundays with my kids. I could understand why a distraught father
attacked a police station in Denver and was shot to death. They had
done the same to him.

.....................

I believe I have to do something because this is totally getting out
of hand.

How can I be found innocent and still be treated as if I was guilty?

How can the government keep me for even making a phone call to my ex
wife. According to the restraining order, Im not even supposed to
send messages to her through a third party.

After I was found not guilty I sued her for false arrest but a judge
dismissed my suit without letting it get to a jury.

I lodge a protest against the judge that decided that I could not
have my kids on Sundays, but that was a dead end.

I have taken her to court for denying me my court ordered visitation,
with witnesses, and the judge simply admonished her to please let me
have my Saturdays.

The very next Saturday, I called my three kids. They told me they
were ready for me. I drove there with my 83 year old mother. We
agreed that to avoid any possible problems, she would go up to the
door for my kids. This she did.

A room mate of my ex wife came to the door and invited my mom in for
coffee. My mom told her she would wait outside. Meanwhile, my ex, on
her cell phone, went out the back door and around through the garage.
Then she got behind my mom and pushed her inside the house! On the
cell phone she called 911 to report that my 83 year old mom was
burglarizing the house! The squad cars showed up moments later. I was
out in the car wondering what to do.

After talking to me the officers went to the house and my mom came
out, very angry over the whole thing. Obviously she had been
assaulted and kept against her will. Besides, my ex had made a false
call to 911. I was told that if I brought my visitation order signed
by the judge, my ex would be arrested.

Guess what? I was back an hour later with the papers but they still
did NOTHING!

Therefore, even though I now have a court ordered two weeks, I'm
still not too confident I can actually get it.

I will be checking my email if anyone has any suggestions.

Thanks